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Have You Discovered Your Gifts?

We may not be aware of it yet, but each of us has a unique set of gifts and talents that enable us to fulfill our special purpose and contribution to the world.  Some of us discover our talents early in life in the more obvious ways as an athlete, artist, storyteller or natural teacher.  Others tend to bloom later and their gifts are less obvious; they may be great in supporting people through excellent listening skills and empathy, they may be terrific organizers and project managers, they might be great fund-raisers,  or patient with the elderly or disabled.

Innate gifts come in a wide variety of forms. You may realize that you are a gifted mother, wife and household manager; or you may be a natural visionary for a charity board; or possibly the creative idea person who develops new concepts.

Are our distinctive gifts those talents we are innately good at or are they the things we naturally love to do?  Most likely it is a little of both, but the gifts that come from our passion, our creativity or inspiration are the ones are ultimately the most powerful. Giving a gift that we all have readily available –the gift of love –is perhaps the most wonderful of all.

So, how can you identify what your gifts are?  Ask your friends and family to help you discover them.  What stands out about you may be blatantly clear to others, but may not always be as apparent to you.  Follow your heart.  Whatever your gifts are, don’t discount them, each one is valuable: all are equally important to each of us in fulfilling our individual purpose, as well as learning our own life’s lessons.  There are so many gifts people share that may seem invisible or inconsequential, but that have a lasting influence on those around them.

Once you uncover your special gift, share it with the world! In addition, mentor others, either directly or by example. That is a magnificent gift to give.  Share what you’ve learned and help others along the way, so they can turn around and do the same thing. It’s a kind of “pay it forward,” circle of support that  contributes something valuable to the world and at the same time provides satisfaction, growth and joy to the giver.

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What Does Your Life Say?

“It is better to allow our lives to speak for us than our words” - Mahatma Gandhi
 
 
 
 
 
 

 Ghandi had a famous philosophy that said, “My life is my message.” And I think he absolutely exemplified that philosophy of life. When I think of him, the phrase that comes to mind is, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” That is exactly what his life represented and demonstrated in thought, word and deed.

 So this quote started me thinking about what I want my life to say if it is speaking for me!

The challenge for this week is to ask the following questions:

If your life is your message, what is it saying?

This is not the flowery, idealistic version! We’ll get to that but for now, let’s get a reality check. Take a long, hard look at your life. Now what is it saying?

I think most days my life message is – I am really a very kind person, but only if you are nice to me, agree with me and I have had my coffee!

Sample thoughts:
I have the best of intentions, but can’t seem to follow through.
It isn’t really wrong if no one gets hurt.
It’s really not my fault. I just can’t help it.

 What would you like your life to say?

This is where we can be idealistic. What do you really want your life to be about?

I want my life to say – Live kindly, love fully, do your best and let it go.

 Samples thoughts:
You can do anything if you try hard enough.
All that really matter is love.
Do unto others…..

 What changes do you need to make?

For me this means:

-       Think, speak and act from a place of kindness, not judgment.
-       Consider what I can give in my relationships, instead of what I can get.
-       Do everything as if it really matters and release expectations for the outcome; if it doesn’t matter don’t waste my time.
 
 
Sample thoughts:
Focus my attention on my priority of the moment.
Be present in my life and enjoy the experiences.
Spend more time listening to my heart than my head.
When in doubt, speak from a place of love. 
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Generosity is Harder in Times of Difficulty

When the economy is in a downturn it’s natural to think of yourself and your family first.  You probably have a mortgage to pay, bills to think about or a family to feed.  It is our instinct to try to get more and hoard what we have already to protect ourselves and to give us a sense of security.  It is certainly counter-intuitive to dedicate more of our time, attention and financial resources to those in the world around us when we are plagued by fear and insecurity.

However that is exactly what we need to do for many reasons.  Most importantly in this sort of financial climate, the poverty and need in the world are at their greatest.  Corporate giving is diminished, the government tightens its funding and the citizenry close their wallets. Hungry children, homeless families, the terminally ill and abused animals do not go simply go away! Also consider that the fastest way out of a recession is for people, governments and businesses to spend money, which serves to support our economy.

If you still have a job, a home, health-care and food then be grateful – you are lucky! Please continue to practice generosity and remember that there is always someone in greater need than you.

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