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Learning is Key to Success and Fulfillment

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We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn. – Mary Catherine Bateson

What are you willing to learn? It may not take place in a school or even in a book, but knowledge is all around us, waiting to be absorbed. Do you desire to learn how to more skilled at your profession? How to be a more patient parent? how to be a more considerate human being? How to practice creativity or how about a hobby? Maybe you wish to learn to be more forgiving? Wherever your thirst for knowledge takes you, follow it. That is the path to a fulfilling life.

What are you drawn to learn? Give it a try and see where it leads.

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What Can You Learn From Adversity?

If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.Anne Bradstreet

Be grateful for adversity. Challenges encourage us to grow. Crisis nudges us to wake up and do some searching of the soul. Difficulty sweetens the flavor of success. We need adversity to gain strength, compassion and wisdom. Anyone can “exist” their way through life. It takes someone with something special inside to triumph over adversity. Aren’t we all special in some way? I believe so.

Look back over your life. Haven’t some of your greatest lessons come from adversity? Aren’t you stronger than you were before? More capable? Wiser? Those among us who have never known the struggle of adversity, the trials of testing your limits have also never known the exquisite satisfaction of perseverance.

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Life Balance Tips from the Trenches

There is no more valuable advice than that that comes from the people who are “in the trenches” doing the job and living the life. You can read a book or listen to an expert, but the best wisdom comes from the real experts, real people who are up to their necks in the day to day reality of life.

I felt compelled to share some little nuggets from our Twitter chat (#PLchat) today on work life harmony and balance.

What does life balance look like for you?  The first step is determining what works for you, your career and your family.

Work life balance can be challenging for all. Not just moms.

Not sure what work life balance looks like – but I know it when I feel it.

In reality work life for me is somewhat integrated, but prefer as much separation as possible into “periods.”

Work life balance is very elusive concept.

Work life balance is very difficult, especially when you have so many responsibilities both at work and home.

For me work life harmony is when I only drop a few balls that I am juggling!

A supportive partner is key to any kind of work life balance!

In addition to home support, support at work is just as important.

Maybe being able to give attention to and enjoy each aspect of my life is a good definition of work life balance.

Biggest work life challenge – difficulty unplugging from work/business to focus on family.

I find my key to finding work life balance is scheduling my time on my calendar – and sticking to it.

Create a schedule. If you have an office, close the door (when working & not).

I work best when I schedule in blocks and just move the blocks around for flexibility.

To help me find work life balance I am working on recognizing each little success.

I think hardest to set work life boundaries with myself – no email during family time, exercise before email.

I let my cell go to voice mail when not at work. I can then listen and choose when to respond.

Discipline is the key – and it is something that I am continually working on.

GUILT – I think that is the key when trying to find work life balance.

I feel guilty when I’m working and guilty when home time.

I think guilt is directly tied to self-imposed expectations.

Need to set realistic goals. What is “enough” work & “enough” time with family, self – having to re-evaluate this.

Self-evaluation is the first step. You have to do what is necessary to self-satisfy.

If you start to feel overwhelmed step away.

I find if I get up earlier it helps me too – time to exercise, solitude & planning before kids wake.

I think I need a hobby. Need something just for me.

Key points:

Define what works for you

Stick to schedule

Set boundaries

Unplug

Take mental breaks

Don’t forget to take time for yourself.

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Change One Thing at a Time

Are you taking on too much, getting caught in the resolution frenzy?

Are your resolutions really more like wish lists?

This year why not try making one profound change. Make it important enough that you will reap rewards, see results or gain satisfaction as you progress and work towards this “goal.”  Change is a process that usually takes time, so don’t beat yourself up.

Do you want to start a business, get fit, stop smoking, write a book, start a blog, get out of a dead-end relationship or job, pay off your debt? Whatever it is . . . make this your top priority and put your focus on it until it’s done! You may need to let something else go or at least put it on the back burner to free up time and energy. But what’s the alternative? You will be back in the same place this time next year and nothing will have changed……

I am still making up my mind…write a book, build my business, get fit (exercise every morning, run long road race, build more muscle,) increase financial savings, meditate daily, have more fun……starting to sound like a wish list to me. We are in this together…….

Keep me posted on your progress and we can journey through 2011 together!

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Honor Those Who Came Before Us

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“Every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life are based on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself in order to give in the same measure as I have received and am still receiving.” - Albert Einstein

Just for a moment, let’s be grateful to those that paved the road to where we are. I am grateful for those who guaranteed my birth in a free country, those who won me the right to vote, to bear arms, to disagree publicly with my government, to choose my work or to stay home with my children. I honor those who came before me to begin works of charity and organizations dedicated to human betterment, those who cure illness and those dare to blaze new and unknown trails. They inspire me to ask what can I create and what can I give?

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Dear Veteran, Thank You For The Gift

The gift of freedom, opportunity and choice that is…

Why am I talking about Veteran’s Day on a productivity blog? The simple answer is, because life is about more than work, more than getting things done, more than being organized and more than being successful. Without veterans and other pioneers and guardians to protect and shape our lives, there would be no opportunities or purpose.

Why is it that young children seem to get this, but we as intelligent adults so conveniently forget? My son’s 6th grade class wrote letters to send to Veterans this week in honor of Veterans Day. Nearly all began with “Thank you for the sacrifices you have made…,” now here’s the important part, “for me.” Yes, that’s right “for me.” These children get that this is personal, not just a day off from school or platitudes we utter and parades we watch once a year.

This is about a personal sacrifice that has been made by millions, 21.9 million veterans as of the end of 2009 to be exact. These men and women had or have families, careers, hopes and dreams. They are our brothers, parents, friends, spouses, children, people on TV, in the office next to yours, the mechanic who fixes your car, the nurse who meets you in the emergency room, the elderly man in the nursing home that no one remembers to visit and even more sadly the homeless man begging for food on your city street.

It’s also personal to many of these children and should be to the rest of us “civilians.” The entire class cried with the young boy who wrote his letter to his Veteran grandfather to place on his grave. They offered sympathy and support to my son as he shared his letter to his Veteran father, currently serving in Afghanistan, through the fog of painful tears of separation. Sometimes children have such an open honesty and a clear understanding of simple things that we adults try to complicate.

Veteran’s Day is not just about “Yeah, we’re free!” though that’s certainly worth celebrating. It is about making difficult, often horrific personal sacrifices for the good of something greater than ourselves.

So, today and every day, I continue to be grateful for all those past, present and future that I am proud to call “Veteran.”


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My Birthday Wish

Today is my birthday. I was so filled with anticipation that I could hardly sleep last night! Really, who gets this excited at my age? Oh dear, that makes me sound really old, doesn’t it. I am not reticent in the least to announce that I’m 42 years old today. Or is that 42 years young? It depends upon how you look at it I suppose. What I know is that I was never this giddy over my birthday as a young child!
Perhaps it is that I now savor and appreciate each year of my life. Perhaps it is that I more fully understand how incredibly lucky I am to be alive and healthy. Perhaps it is that I have learned to grab on to each moment if joy as it comes. Or perhaps I have learned that life is an unpredictable journey of twists and turns; that interwoven amongst the challenges and heartache are moments of sheer bliss. That is a life to be grateful for!
My birthday wish for all of you is that you wake each day as thrilled to be alive as I am.

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Do What You Think You Cannot Do

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You must do the thing you think you cannot do. – Eleanor Roosevelt

What is it that you always thought you could not do, but would kind of, sort of, really like to do? We all have limits in our minds of who we are and what we can accomplish. What one thing could you do if you had just a little more strength, a little more knowledge, a little more skill or a little more courage? What would happen if you tried it anyway? Let’s find out.

Share what you’d like to do or have done!

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Be Thankful

Be Thankful

Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire,

If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don’t know something

For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.

During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations

Because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge

Because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes

They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary

Because it means you’ve made a difference.

It is easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are

also thankful for the setbacks.

GRATITUDE can turn a negative into a positive.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles

and they can become your blessings.

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Real Age Wisdom

A tip from RealAge.com. Thanks to Tanya for sharing this tip with me!

To Feel Content, Just Take a Stand

Has something in the news gotten your ire up? Taking a stand on it could boost your quality of life.

New research shows that not just believing in a cause, but actively supporting it, tends to translate into a happier, more contented life.

Power Beyond the Pen

In a series of studies, researchers surveyed over 1,000 adults to find out if they considered themselves to be activists for any particular issue, from supporting antiwar politics to championing human rights. And the researchers found that the stronger a person’s activism, the better that person felt — as long as his or her activities weren’t extreme. Specifically, the highly engaged activists reported experiencing more positive emotions, feeling more satisfied with their lives, and feeling more connected to others. (Here’s another get-happy strategy that will help you feel more satisfied every day.)

The Good in Do-Gooding

Investing yourself in issues that are important to you helps strengthen your sense of self and fosters personal feelings of purpose — both of which can help get you through tough or stressful times. So whether you write letters to Congress or start a nonprofit, take an active stand on the things you believe in. And here are just a few more ways that doing good for others does your own life some major good:

It can keep your mind from slowing down.

It can boost longevity.

RealAge Benefit:

Taking care of your emotional health and well-being can make your RealAge up to 16 years younger.

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